*diVorcE*

today let's talk about divorce.
is kinda scary if u gonna stay with the one u dun love for the sake of your kids.
my colleague actually got problem with her husband...
i am not sure whether is communication problem or personal problem...
she and her husband is like very "rude"?? to each other...
but she said she wont divorce because if she do so, her kids will be very pathetic.

if i am the one, i oso will not divorce..it is probably because i cannot accept the term of "divorcee". but after telling my fren so, i kena scold. they said i should have change my concept and accept the term of "divorcee" because life u only live once, r u going to spare ur entire life with the one you dun love for your kids sake??

after serious consideration, i still refuse to accept. maybe i will try to work out the mess instead of end my relation with him. husband is the one u pick, and the time you agreed to marry him, you should hav understand u nid to accept his everything in your future life. if you cannot get through it..why you agreed to marry him in the first place??

well...maybe is totally different when u r dating and married. dating you might not nid to face him everyday, but married you gonna stay with him entire life?? conflicts might occurs easily when you stay together...because both of you come from different family environment and might not have the same living style.

sigh...whatever la...married is not what i wan now...or did i got the marrige phobia?? haha...is really not the big issue to me..jus the thought running through my mind...and wanna know how my colleague feel...hope she can stay well with his hubby la...if not her children will be suffer...^^